MOTIVE OF LIFE

  Happiness  is a state of our mind.  First : Whether we have something or not, whether we have that person or not, we need to learn how to keep ourselves happy.  Happiness and love are human rights at every stage of life. Even if you are not happy, create a thought that "I am a happy being". Every thought we create that creates nerve synapsis inside our brain and then the signals travel through our body, which we eventually make us happy.  Two magical times to create this thought is : 15 minutes before sleeping and 15 minutes after getting up in the morning. Which will program your subconscious mind with positive thoughts. Second :  Laughing simply for a longer time without any reason will trick our mind to feel that we are happy.  We do not need a reason to laugh friends, just laugh and laugh and laugh and keep yourself happy by making sure that the people around you are also happy. Third : Go in front of the mirror look at yourself, smile at yoursel...

Time : One second that can make a beggar -> a king ------ and a king -> a beggar............ One second that takes your self respect to the heights of the mountains and which can merge your indentity under the deep oceans. That is the value of one second of a time. Always value and respect the person who takes out his/her time for you,  stay dedicated to the person who stands with you in the hardest times. This time is very valuable.

You were born to stay happy. Never forget that you are awesome. As said by Charlie chaplin: A day without a laughter is a day wasted. So here are a few steps you can stay happy : 1.  Listen to your heart, because that is where your soul resides. It will never lie to you. Ask your heart, what does it need now ? What makes it happy ? 2.  After you have got an answer , do what makes your heart happy. => But friends here is a bonus tip according to the universal truth i have discovered in life :  When you seek your happiness in others happiness, when you prioritise your happiness in others happiness. That is the situation when you will feel the most happiest.  =>Beauty is everywhere in everyone, see everyone with beauty. Keep eevryone around you happy, your innerself will automatically be happy. "Inner peace is happiness" Every living being deserves to be happy, wish the best for everyone, keep doing good to everyone irrespective of how bad or good that person is. ...

 So friends, most of you might be having some or the other beliefs in life. But you would have wondered how come some people always stay motivated. It always depends on the consistency in life. Staying motivated means never giving up. For example : You want to solve a problem of life, you have tried 20 solutions, but you still haven't solved that problem. In sucha scenario, heart breaks are common, but staying consistent and hopeful that your problem will surely get solved one day becomes immensely important. Bestow your best possible self, to come out of every struggle. When you come out of every struggle , your inner self becomes more strong and more brave to face life.  Second belief could be to wish best for everyone, irrespective of anyone it maybe. For example: you have a person in your life who has hurted you the most. Some people will tend to take revenge on such a person. But instead of this, you can just stay selfless, wish good for even the worst person and do good ...

 Friends i am sure all of you will have had some or the other worst experience of life, or maybe someone is going through one. So lets take an example of Sun. Sun burns itself  severely from inside and gives us light. This light helps millions and trillions of living being to survive. Similarly, when we go through a worst experince in life, we burn oueselves from inside severely and come out with a new kind of energy.  Feel the scenario, where you go through a struggle and your soul comes out with a special kind of feeling, more maturity to deal with this life. Which makes us internally more stronger. When we all will become ole we will realise that the worst experiences are the best experiences in life. the reason for this is worst experiences teach us the best lessons of life. Life always keeps teaching. every second of life has something to teach. Make most of your every second in life. Respect time by learning something new every second, time will respect you. Alright...

 Friends i am sure all of you have suffered at some point in life due to the loss of a loved one.  Its obvious that we suffer from a kind of depression which is incurable when we loose our dearly loved one. But give a certain threshold of time to yourself for feeling that sadness. When that time period gets over, just imagine that your loved one is in every breathe of yours.  For example: i study masters in  computer science abroad, When i was abroad, i lost my dearly father, whom i loved the most.  I was getting signals from the universe that there is a threat to my father's life.I told my mother father and whole family. But noone believed me and instead consoled me. The bad dreams kept on continuing , as days passed on i started crying loudly in my room remembring my father. But i never told anyone that i was crying. When time was near, .i.e. one day before my fathers death i got a kind of strong nervousness and i was really upset. Then when it was next day mo...

 Positivity in every situation of life irrespective of any hard situations in life, will make us stronger souls. After every struggle we learn something. So seek positivity in everything. Think positively, the whole perspective of life will change.Life will be more beautiful. More positive energy to solve the problems will surround you. Life means solving all the problems and living until last breathe. Hence this will also make a human being happy.

  HONEY BEES ARE A GREAT INSPIRATION !! Life ! seems to be miserable every second of our live.  But haveyou ever thought ? Why me? Instead of these thoughts, have a thought like "what does this situation have to teach me at this very moment ? " Trust me friends, this thought helps your soul to come out with different glowing colours after facing every struggle. With every struggle in life , we often learn something, become more mature and a kind of challenging fire gets ignoted from within us.  Always see your life with a positive mindset friends, let it be life taking situations of life, that doesn't matter. What matters is your positive mindset. Hope this has helped you. Will see you next time on my future upcoming posts.

 Dear friends, Imagine when a tree grows, its branches develop fruits. Also when the fruits are ready to harvest, they fulfil someones hunger.  Similarly, when you grow up, its necessary to go far from parents because, when you are attached to your family , you will never know the relaity of life, and the reality of this world.  Infact you should try exploring wide range of humanity in the sense, meet more people, try solving your own problems yourself.  Always living in their shelter, will only make you more dependent.Try to be independent friends.  Also parents can not be there with you always, so i know and also have suffered the pain of separation from family .  But friends, trust me, the pain of separation from loved ones is really important in life , in order to make your own identity in this world. **So friends, never think bad about going away from mom and dad, only when you are far from them you can undertand this world properly.

 When , we get angry it tends to : 1. Reduce our thinking ability. 2. It reduces our patience level. 3. It reduces our immunity power. 4. It reduces our ability to think about others and our loved ones.  5. It increases selfishness.  Try to control your mind and heart, so that you see everyone in a good perspective. Love every person on this earth, whatever the situation maybe , just have a smile and a laugh on your face so that  , problems don't overtake your ability to lead life. Having a smile and a laugh will make you look more beautiful, and also it reduces your anger.Also by seeing every person with , love your anger will reduce.  But REMEMBER !! before everything, you need to start loving yourself, never get angry on yourself, this fact is a root to all the problems of life. LOVE EVERYONE , HELP MAXIMUM PEOPLE POSSIBLE BEFORE YOU DIE !!  TRY TO BE A LIGHT IN MAXIMUM PEOPLE'  LIFE. GOD WILL LOVE YOUR SOUL.  JUST LOVE EVERYONE AND EVERY EXPER...

 There's nothing called mine or yours in this world, everything is mortal in this world.  No person in this world is rich or poor , small or big ,  irrespective of everything, all people are equal in this world.  There's noone called own or third person. Everyone are equal and should be treated equally.  Give sweet things from your heart, give everything , let it be lessons of life, let it be something you have   ( similarly in the way a sea gives away it's waters to rivers , and it's water remains sweet. )  Similarly make your life sweet by giving away whatever you have, which makes yourself and your thoughts pure and sweet. Then see, everything in this world is yours, and so you belong to everyone. (only if you feel that doing good to others is your primary aspect of life. )  

 Dear friends,     All the teachers teach us something in life. But when you learn something, every teacher takes your  exam. Did you wonder who's the best teacher of your life ?  Well, let me tell you this important secret,  for :  example (1) :  You are preparing for an exam, you go and give your exam , then come back. After the exam is done, you tend to forget the things you have learnt. example (2) : You are facing a difficult situation in life, you put all your efforts to overcome from this difficulty. In this situation , we remember the lessons we have learned forever in life.  Any idea from the above examples ?  Ok so, example (2), is the situation where we remember the things forever in life.  Which concludes that LIFE IS THE BEST TEACHER !!

 Dear friends, That special someone with whom you can share anything and everything is yourself.  You are your best friend, who will support you irrespective of any situation in life. Listen to yourself to heal yourself. Listen to your heart, to heal your heart. Never wait for someone to share your sorrows or thoughts. That someone is yourself. So, remember! Noone will support you when you are facing your hardest times, even if you are struggling between your life and death, there will be noone with you. Love yourself, respect yourself, have faith in yourself, listen to yourself.....

💦🙈🙉🙊💦   FRIENDSHIP is the biggest power in this world  !  But how should this friendship be  ? It should be like the 💦water mixed in milk, how ? When water is mixed with milk , then the water itself becomes milk ! think ?  Because water made friendship with milk, it's value increased ! But the story doesn't end here, when the milk is boiled , the water takes the heat first ,  it burns out it's originality and becomes vapors. Then after the friend is gone , there are bubbles in milk. then it becomes still only when some water is mixed with it ..... So friendship is when one donates his/her originality ,        Friendship is when he/she burns his/her originality.     Friendship is when the happiness and sorrows are tied with the friend.     So make such a friend in front of which world's richest person becomes small ......     LOVE LIFE ! !  Make good friends !   💖

There's a word called "selfish" People do wrong things in selfishness etc.... World has considered selfishness as a sin !!  Is selfishness really bad ? No...... Selfish is made up of a word "self", which means from oneself. So the work in which there's ones self meaning, and self benefit ,  That is selfishness !!  Now it's the question?  What's your inner self ? If your inner self  has only YOU ( self benefit ) !! then you are selfish ! If your inner self  has your family (family benefit) !! Your are not selfish ! your inner self is VARIABLE.!! If your inner self  has few more people , then you are a PHILANTHROPIST(you love doing CHARITY)!! If your inner self  has the whole world (you want to improve this world) ! Then you are PARAMOUNT !!

 There's no beauty in our body or looks ! Beauty lies in the kind of work you do !!  It lies in the divine thoughts of a human being !  Beauty lies in the words we speak ! It lies in the way we treat others , irrespective of anything ! It basically lies in the kind of divine attitude towards others, the way we treat others. and lies in his history of his behavior !! whoever has all these beauties , he/she is  the most beautiful in this world  !!!! 

 Dear friends, I personally feel the following are  the most important factors to guarantee a tomorrow that'll see your success :  1. Discipline :  - Controlling the human mind is really important , there are millions to countless thoughts per day in a human life , but when you try to focus your mind and heart on only one thing , you will surely be able to achieve , success in a very short time. 2. Passion :  - Make a single thing that makes you happy , as your passion, work day and night for few years , then stay happy forever .  3. Bravery : - when we are scared of something , we are not able to accept it's reality in our life , but friends listen !! Always face it in from of your face , let it hit you harder , but that hurt will make your soul more stronger .  4. Developing a skill : - develop a skill within yourself so that , you excel in it  !! Companies will call you if you are excellent at it .  5. Hard work : -Work for 3 years day and...

 Dear friends ,  Try not to think or waste your energy on the past events , because : Thinking about past events and setbacks will : 1. Cause a rise in emotional stress which causes a negative chain reaction in your precious body . 2. By thinking , you get anxious , tensed and frustrated , which will cause your body to suffer with muscle pains , nerve stress and head aches.  3. Also it causes depression and finally you get angry , which causes you to fall ill frequently.  4. In turn, there is a hormonal chemical reaction , where the cortisol levels and adrenaline levels rise , which leads to increase in HCL in your stomach and resulting in  gastritis and many other complications.  5. So , What are you accomplishing friends?  Finally you are harming this precious life you have got as a human being . 6. Instead of thinking about past events and setbacks , use your full thoughts and energy to perform something productive , so that your name is there on th...

 Dear friends, If you are doing your everyday tasks to take care of  yourself  , and your family , so you feel busy ? right !!  Here you are just caring , not accomplishing anything in reality .  1. You might have some purpose of life , which you need to fulfill, try recognize it and work towards it .   2. Working towards it , will teach you many things , and you will accomplish many things and experiences for life . 3. These accomplishments on the way to the purpose of life , will make you more brave and will give you more self confidence. 4. Just work and focus on a single purpose  !!  you  can achieve anything you want in this world !! 

 Dear friends ,  Never , doubt yourself at any point of life.  1.Sometimes life will take you to such a point where you will loose all your hopes .  But please friends , don't step back . Such Situations will always make you stronger.  2. Focus on a single task , don't get deviated , make it as your hobby, it will fetch you many things in life. 3. Build good and profitable skills , be disciplined , focus  on the skill you are developing. 4. Discipline and self control are the keys to achieving anything in life.  5. So, guys be careful and trust yourself , do something in life which will recognize you. whatever you want to do in life , everything is possible. Just focus on the your purpose you want to achieve, do them smartly. Whatever hurdles you face in life , face them bravely , you are more braver than you think. Do everything in life , do them with smartness , you are more smarter than you think.